The fertility conversation we're not having - but should be

Kimberley Caines • February 26, 2025

No one teaches us about timing when it comes to our bodies.


We grow up thinking we have all the time in the world - until suddenly, we don't.


More and more women are bravely sharing their struggles with infertility, often saying they wish they had known more when they were younger.


They wonder why doctors never mentioned options like egg freezing or trying for a baby sooner - before it was too late.


I've been a strong advocate for egg freezing ever since I froze my own eggs in my 20s - not because of a medical condition, but because I wanted to give myself choices for the future. I didn’t want to miss my fertility window.


Whenever I speak to women about my journey, I hear the same sentiment: I wish I had done it sooner. Many regret not freezing their eggs when they had more and better-quality ones.


We need to do more to ensure people have the right information to make informed decisions about their fertility.


I'm on a mission to change that.

Kimberley Caines' eggs before being put on ice.
By Kimberley Caines March 13, 2025
Eleven days before Treasurer Jim Chalmers encouraged Australians to have more babies to boost the dwindling birth rate, I received an email from my fertility provider asking for patients to donate their frozen eggs. Australia is experiencing one of the lowest fertility rates in history.
Kimberley Caines froze her eggs in her 20s to take control of her future fertility.
By Kimberley Caines February 20, 2025
It’s hard to imagine that at 28 years old, the quality and quantity of my eggs were already deteriorating. This was not due to a medical condition but simply my age.